Molestation is Not a Death Sentence
Linda Wattley, Author of Molested Angel says "If you have been molested you must understand you are under the influence of mixed signals. These mixed signals are the reason you can’t seem to find peace within yourself. I have a growing philosophy that arose from my writing Molested Angel that gives us solid keys of transformation from victimization to individualization with a twist of hope." Join her as she discusses her book Molested Angel with the Velvet Voice of Size Diversity on the Size Matters, Too Radio Show the week of March 20, 2005. Tune in 24/7 online/ondemand at www.sizematterstoo.com
(PRWEB) March 18, 2005 -- Imagine awakening in a world unknown to you. In
this world there’s one main voice familiar to you. It’s the voice of your
mother. With this voice you are given the strength to allow the human
development process to make you more conscious of this world. For those who
don’t hear this familiar voice, the journey is more
difficult.
In her writings, you will rediscover
your primitive emotions and feelings that separate us from the rest of the
animal kingdom. These feelings and emotions have been buried deep within our
souls due to early experiences of pain. Sexuality and sensuality are the most
primitive sensations existing in human beings. How these sensations are
introduced and exercised determines our individuality and outlook on life. When
you are a child, every touch is registered deep within your soul. This is why it
is human nature to want, need and share touching. The lack of touching, immoral
touching and random touching promises a life of
desperation.
Because
touching is such a powerful tool, this world uses the word love to justify
touching one another to fulfill their physical needs. Wattley takes you to your
soul and in that arrival; you rediscover a more real connection with humanity.
You realize you do not suffer alone. The characters in this book derive from the
reservoirs of her soul. If you have ever been touched, you too have a reservoir
of characters screaming to express themselves. Memory spoken is not the only
memory by which we function.
Wattley believes we are so naturally
empowered with the ability to communicate with one another that we don’t allow
ourselves to be selective in what we communicate. For instance, touching is a
sacred opportunity to heal, nurture and uplift one another. However, we choose
to touch for self-gratification not knowing this touch is unhealthy for the
recipient. Because it is more of a taking than giving, it leaves the object of
interest with less of their soul.
She believes
that we daily operate on automatic pilot as we seek understanding of what it
means to be alive and in this world. It’s amazing how we survive pain and unjust
experiences here. Leona, one of the main characters in her book is a young girl
who shares her inner search to find understanding of life and God. The people in
her life are ordinary people with hidden pain and a need to be loved. Their past
brought them to their present existence. The question of right or wrong does
nothing to heal the soul. However, the search to know and prove there is much
more to life than meet the eyes is our natural instinct to
survive.
God, love, sex and pain are key
elements that determine our state of mind. These key elements determine how we
treat one another. Who would admit it was sex that assisted in their awakening
to the reality of God? Or, who would admit it was pain that turned them away
from God? Also, who would admit it was love that gave the okay to stand naked
before another human being? It is this silence of our secret choices that she
believes created the dilemma that life is unkind.
Though the characters in her book suffer early in life, they never give up
on hope, love and freedom. Some kind of a way they find the right understanding
to get to the next level of understanding. Their realities become your realities
as you remember the natural processes that make us who and what we are today.
Sometimes remembering is reassembling our inner soul that we may start again.
Wattley believes life has a matrix. It started the day we were born. In that
matrix you will find yourself again and life will have a new meaning.
Wattley believes life is not over because
molestation occurs. As a woman of size, Wattley has always been considered a big
girl. It was not until later in life she learned it is believed our physical
ailments are a direct result of our psychological perceptions of ourselves.
Where obesity is concerned, it is also believed you subconsciously feel a need
to be protected from others and life and that is often achieved through building
a comfort barrier by allowing your body size to become large.
Wattley
personally did not entertain the thought she needed protection though she's a
large woman. However considered it a possibility since she felt unprotected as a
child after being molested. Wattley learned no matter what the reasons may be
that made you the person you are today, there is still so much more that makes
you who you are!
If you have been molested you must understand you have
come under the influence of mixed signals Snydrome. Mixed signals are the reason
you can’t seem to find peace. Wattley obtained a growing philosophy that arose
from her writing Molested Angel that gives us solid keys of transforming from
"victimization" to "individualization" with a twist of hope.
Wattley
stresses--to "move on in life," you must first realize what you're "moving on
from." It is easy to call it molestation but it is so much more than that. Join
Linda Wattley as she shares her insights and experiences that led to the
creation of “Molested Angel” in an intimate discussion with Veronica Cook-Euell,
the Velvet Voice of Size Diversity, on "Size Matters, Too" www.sizematterstoo.com
the week of March 20th. Remember, you are chosen to do great things!
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