Appreciating the Real Value of Our Pets: How We Can Care For Our Aging Animal Companions
Here in the United States, over 290 million of us own nearly 378 million pets, and we spent over 32 billion dollars on them in 2003—an almost doubling of pet expenditures in the last 10 years. And that’s $12 billion more than we spent on toys for our children that same year. The message is clear, we seem to care more for our pets than ever before and show it by spending more and more for their care.
(PRWEB) August 17, 2005 -- Not since Lassie and My Friend Flicka graced
television airwaves has America been more in love with its pets. There are now
more pets than people in the country according to a survey by the American Pet
Products Manufacturers Association.
Here in the United States, over 290
million of us own nearly 378 million pets, and we spent over 32 billion dollars
on them in 2003—an almost doubling of pet expenditures in the last 10 years. And
that’s $12 billion more than we spent on toys for our children that same year.
The message is clear, we seem to care more for our pets than ever before and
show it by spending more and more for their care.
It’s no wonder;
psychologists and pro-animal groups have been telling us for years that pets are
for good for much more than fetching Frisbees in the yard. Simply spending time
with them can help humans reduce depression and anxiety and even revive the will
to live in some.
Just think of the classic dog response when its master
returns home from a 10 minute trip to the store. That “I love you and can’t get
enough of you” tail-wagging and enthusiasm is hard to find in the human world.
There is even AAT, or Animal Assisted Therapy, in which animals are used by
health professionals to treat a variety of both physical and mental disorders.
There is also strong evidence that pet owners have less high blood
pressure and lower cholesterol levels. Their resistance to disease is heightened
and tension is decreased.
But with all the good that owning pets bring
us, they also carry with them pain of loss that we might not otherwise
experience. Pets die. And while that is nothing new, the growing attachment that
we seem to have to our pets means a growing number of people suffer great
emotional distress at the loss of pets.
A woman named Lori, for instance
recently wrote on a website for pet-owners about her dog disappearing, “I have
not been able to cope very well with his disappearance. I feel like part of my
soul went with him wherever he went.”
And then there is the challenge of
euthanasia. Unlike in the human world where it is mostly illegal and highly
debated, putting pets “to sleep” is an accepted practice. But it still brings
great pain to those involved. After euthanizing her dog, a grief-stricken owner
recently wrote, “I know we did what was best for him by ending his suffering,
yet I feel so guilty for having helped in the decision to end a life…..my heart
is broken.”
But it is just this kind of deep attachment, and yes, pain,
that makes having a pet such a rewarding experience, says Diane Pomerance, a
Ph.D. in communications who is also a grief recovery specialist.
“In today’s
complex, impersonal, industrialized and technologically-oriented society,” she
says, “we learn not only from our elderly humans but also from our older animal
companions, with whom we happily share both our lives and homes.”
Pomerance argues that pets teach us about life and ourselves, and that
results in better understanding of ourselves and more sensitivity to caring for
our pets.
Dr. Pomerance is the author of several books on animal issues.
Most recently, she authored, Animal Elders: Caring About Our Aging Animal
Companions in which she guides the reader to a greater appreciation for learning
from and caring for pets. “It is important to value and appreciate all phases of
life,” she says, “and to honor, respect, and care for our animal and human
elders.”
But it is a two-way street, she believes. From the attachment
to and care for our pets comes wisdom for our own lives. “From our animal
companions,” she says, “we can learn much about the process of growing old with
its accompanying rewards and limitations.”
For a review copy of the book
or to set up an interview with Diane Pomerance for a story, please contact Jay
Wilke at 727-443-7115, ext. 223.
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