It’s Summertime - Do You Know Where Your Husband Is?
Summertime is peak season for cheating husbands. Extramarital affairs flourish this time of the year. Infidelity expert, Ruth Houston tells wives how to spot the signs of summer infidelity, what to do about it, and exposes the tactics men use to hide their summer affairs.
(PRWEB) July 21, 2005 -- Summertime is high season for cheating husbands.
Extramarital affairs flourish during this time of the year. For many men, summer
infidelity is a recreational sport. “Some men are seasonal cheaters.” Says
infidelity expert Ruth Houston. “They only cheat when
their wives are on vacation. Other men are opportunistic cheaters who cheat when
there’s an opportunity do so without getting caught.” Houston, author of Is He
Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs says, both types of cheaters view summer
as the ideal time to initiate an extramarital affair.
Most Summer
Affairs Go Undetected
According to statistics, 50% to 70% of husbands
cheat on their wives. A good percentage of these affairs take place during the
summer months. Most of this infidelity goes undetected. Studies reveal that 2/3
of women whose husbands are cheating have no idea their husbands are having an
affair. Below Houston alerts wives to some of the tactics cheating husbands use
to hide their summer affairs.
Husbands Play While the Wife is
Away
Some husbands routinely send the wife and kids to the beach, the
lake, the country, or to visit relatives in another state. Says Houston, “Most
wives have no idea what their husbands are up to while they and the children are
away. They don’t know where he is, who he’s with, or how he’s spending his time.
Instead of sitting home alone eating a TV dinner, he could be out on the town,
wining and dining his ladylove.”
Fictitious Fishing Trips and other
Lies
“Cheating husbands frequently disguise vacations with their mistress
as a fishing, camping or rafting trips with the guys.” Says Houston, whose
website http://www.Infidelity.com clues women in to the things
cheating men often do. “ Men know that outdoor activities and other forms of
male bonding are unlikely to be questioned by their wives.” Is he really hiking
the Appalachian Trail with his buddies? Or soaking up sun in St.Thomas with his
summer sweetheart?
Bogus Business Trips
“Trysts with the mistress
can be disguised as bogus business trips,” warns Houston. “Even valid business
trips can provide the perfect opportunity to cheat away from prying eyes.” While
he’s attending that summer business conference without you, a budding office
romance could blossom into a full blown affair. “Pay attention to your husband’s
summer business trips,” says Houston. “Are they occurring more frequently or
lasting longer than usual? Has he tacked on an extra day or two before or after
a legitimate business trip so he can spend the time with his lover?”
Suspicious Separate Vacations
Has your husband suggested that the
two of you take separate vacations this year? Do you know where he plans to go,
or who he’ll be vacationing with? According to Houston, he could be laying the
groundwork for a summer affair. Will he be living it up in Las Vegas with his
lover while you’re being pampered at a spa? If you have reason to suspect he
might be cheating, you may want to re-think your summer plans.
What to
Do About Summer Affairs
“Speak up! “ Houston advises wives who see signs
of a summer affair developing or actually taking place. “Ignoring it won’t make
it go away. Let your husband know you’re aware of what’s going on and tell him
you want it to stop. If you allow him to think he’s getting away with his affair
or that he has your silent approval, he’ll feel free to do it again next
summer.” Or worse – he may even continue it throughout the year. Houston warns,
“ Some cheaters turn their summer flings into a permanent state of affairs. Your
husband could become so attached to his mistress that he moves out or asks you
for a divorce.”
Precautions To Take
Does this mean you should
forego renting that beach house for the summer or put that 2-week trip to your
parents on hold? Houston says, “ If you’ve seen suspicious behavior or signs of
infidelity during the past few weeks or months, this is not the ideal time for
you to be away.”
She continues, “If your husband is a seasonal or
opportunistic cheater, don’t make it easy for him to cheat. Stay close to home,
keep tabs on him, and stay alert. Follow the suggestions in my tip sheet, ‘How
to Prevent or Short-Circuit Your Husband’s Summer Affair.’ Plan your summer so
he won’t have the time or the opportunity to get involved in a summer affair.
Safeguard your marriage by putting some checks and balances in place. Plan
summer activities for the whole family and several romantic weekends for two.”
If you heed Houston’s advice, you won’t have to wonder where your husband is
this summer -- you’ll know, because he’ll be with you.
FREE Tip Sheet on
Summer Affairs
To request Houston’s FREE tip sheet which lists the
telltale signs of a summer affair and gives tips on how to prevent or short
circuit your husband’s summer affair, send an e-mail to e-mail protected from
spam bots (InfidelityAdvice at gmail.com) with “summer affair” in the subject
line.
About Ruth Houston:
Infidelity expert, Ruth Houston is
the author of Is He Cheating on You?- 829 Telltale Signs, a comprehensive guide
which documents practically every known sign of infidelity. For a FREE list of
telltale signs of summer infidelity and a tip sheet on how to prevent or short
circuit your husband’s summer affair, send an email to e-mail protected from
spam bots (InfidelityAdvice at gmail.com) with “summer affairs” in the subject
line. Ruth has been quoted in the New York Times, the New York Post, Newsday,
the Toronto Sun, the Indianapolis Star, Cosmopolitan, the Christian Science
Monitor, MSN Lifestyle, AOL, iVillage, and numerous other print and online media
here and abroad. She has been a guest on Good Day New York, TalkAmerica,
1010WINS and well over 150 radio and TV talk shows in the US, Canada, Europe,
South America, and the Caribbean. Ruth’s website www.InfidelityAdvice.com provides practical advice on all
aspects of infidelity.
To interview Ruth Houston, call 718 592-6039 or
e-mail e-mail protected from spam bots (InfidelityExpert at
gmail.com)
About the Book:
"Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale
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The signs are grouped into 21 major categories so a woman can easily find the
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