The Rules of Dating, Vacationing and Compatibility
Review romantic getaway survival strategies from dating expert, author of "Dating for I Do," Holly Bentz.
(PRWEB) July 13, 2005 -- Vacations, distant destinations and a new amour
conjure the unexpected. The insecurity of unfamiliar surroundings can surface
irreconcilable differences amongst young love in bloom.
In Corona beer
commercials, romantic getaways are depicted as tranquil solitude during a
breathtaking sunset. Beyond the scenic print ads of exotic travel escapes, one
story is left untold. It is the reality of pandemonium. Traveling can make or
break a new relationship.
Very rarely, do travel agencies,
reservationists and airlines purport the trials and tribulations of vacation
inconveniences:
- Lost or stolen luggage
- Delayed itineraries
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Security gate groping
- Language barriers
- Missing reservations
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Overbooked flights
- Crowded check-ins
Despite the frustrations and
aggravations of travel, it may serve as a fast study on the future of a
potential significant other. Vacationing has a way of revealing one’s true
colors. It was a weekend trip to NYC when Jenny Aldridge (28) found out that her
lover was a manic depressant who failed to take medication for treat his
chemical imbalance. “When Kevin was not under the influence of alcohol he was
unbearable. I’m relieved that I found out early. It saved me months of another
failed relationship,” shares Aldridge.
“My trip to the Greek Isles was
the most hellish” trip, EVER” states Landon McDaniels (36). He had been dating
Shawna for 2 months when he invited her to set sail from Santorini to other
neighboring islands of Greece. Since, McDaniels was chartering a boat with a
crew of two other people, he assumed his girlfriend would pitch in with some of
the onboard duties. “Little did I know, I was dating a prima Donna who whined
about everything…and sulked in the cabin most of the day,” articulates
Landon.
Traveling with a new significant other does not always represent
a nightmare situation. When Stephanie and Greg went to Paris together, they
learned how they shared a curiosity for non-touristy spots. Their compatibility
was depicted in their similar traveling style.
The author of “Dating For
I Do,” Holly Bentz, recommends taking an early vacation within the first three
months of the relationship. A 48-hour getaway can be very telling compared with
the time spent on a regular date. While new lovers may think that they are
altering their lifestyle during travel, they really are not. Consequently, it is
appropriate to be respectful of another’s life choices.
Most couples
place high expectations on the romantic getaway. “Unfortunately, the
relationship faux pas can cause excessive undue stress. The best approach
entails fairly evaluating a prospective significant other for the bigger
picture, the fate of the relationship,” states dating expert, Bentz.
Live by the following travel strategies to make your romantic getaway an
escape filled with compatibility:
- Book a short trip. Instead of opting
for the week in Santo Domingo, try the weekend getaway.
- Learn about their
travel style. If your vacationing partner prefers to schedule every available
minute with activities and you are more of a spontaneous traveler – set some
guidelines.
- Plan moderate itinerary in advance. Formulize a few common
interest activities to include in the getaway.
- Make light of underlying
differences. Before making an issue of incidental situations, make light of
conflicts. Remember, that you are traveling with someone you care about versus
Satan’s reject.
- To quell conflicts be flexible. Conflicts may arise from
bringing a lap top, to watching a soap opera or playing video games. The idea is
to diffuse any simmering differences.
- Spend a little time apart. Keeping
the peace can sometimes mean ducking away to the driving range or spa.
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Mind your P’s and Q’s in the restroom. The bathroom may represent a battlefield
for many couples. To accommodate the other person, use the hotel bathroom, wake
up a little earlier to use the facility or simply request a double sink.
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Avoid altercations. On the trip, skirt arguments and make minor notes about
essential differences. The disparities are indicators of the future endurance of
your relationship.
Whatever you discover about your prospective
significant other, remember to keep it all in its proper perspective: “You are
on vacation to relax, rejuvenate and enjoy!”
For more smart strategies on
dating, review “Dating For I Do – The Single’s Guide on Establishing a Long-Term
Relationship” at http://www.datingforIdo.com. For a chuckle or inspiration on
the daily humorous observations of dating visit the Mingling Dating Post at http://www.lulu.com/datingforIdo.
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