Is Your Valentine the Cheating Kind?
Some men are more likely to cheat than others because of their background, past history or certain character traits. What about the man in your life? Is your Valentine the cheating kind? Answer these 7 questions to see if your man is a potential cheater.
(PRWEB) January 31, 2005 -- According to statistics, 50% to 70% of men cheat
on their mates. What type of man is most likely to cheat? Ruth Houston,
infidelity expert and author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs
says, “Some men are more likely to cheat than others. You can tell by looking at
certain things in their background, their past history, or certain character
traits.”
What about the man in your life? Is your valentine the cheating
kind? Houston says the answers to the following questions will help you rate
your mate to see if he’s a potential
cheater.
Questions:
1. Does he thrive on
adventure?
2. Did he have a great deal of sexual experience
prior to your relationship?
3. Does he have lots of female
friends?
4. Does he have male friends who are cheating on
their wives or girlfriends?
5. Does he have a parent who
cheated?
6. Did he cheat in any of his past
relationships?
7. Does he feel that infidelity is really no
big deal?
What your answers mean:
1. Some men enjoy
all the suspense, deception and intrigue that accompany infidelity. They’ll
cheat just for the “thrill of the chase.”
2. Studies
reveal that men who were extremely sexually active before settling down in a
committed relationship are more apt to engage in sex outside that relationship.
Don’t expect a leopard to change his spots.
3. Close
friendships with women are a common starting point for infidelity. Friends can
quickly turn into lovers. The closer the friendship, the greater the odds that
it will develop into an affair.
4. Never underestimate the
power of peer pressure. If his friends are cheating, he’ll soon be cheating too.
5. Infidelity tends to run in families. Children of
unfaithful parents are often programmed to follow in their footsteps,
considering infidelity to be the norm.
6. “Once a cheater,
always a cheater.” There are exceptions, but statistically speaking, if he
cheated once, he’s more apt to do it again. His history will probably repeat
itself.
7. If he doesn’t believe that infidelity is wrong,
his behavior will reflect his beliefs.
The more ‘yes’ answers you have,
the greater the likelihood that you have a potential cheater on your hands.
“Even you only have one ‘yes’, Houston warns,” there’s still cause for concern.
Fortunately, there are at least a dozen precautions you can take.” For a FREE
tip sheet entitled “ 12 Ways to Handle a Potential Cheater,” send an e-mail to:
e-mail protected from spam bots (CheatingInfo at aol.com) with the words "12
Ways” in the subject line.
Evaluating the Results
“Since some answers
carry more weight than others” says Houston, “you’ll want to evaluate the
results. You need to know if you’re dealing with a Potential Cheater, a Common
"Garden-Variety" Cheater, an Experienced Cheater, or a Hard-Core
Cheater.”
If you answered yes to #1, #2, or #5 (but not all three), he’s
a Potential Cheater who will probably cheat if the opportunity presents
itself.
If you answered yes to #3 or #4 alone, together, or in
combination with #1 or #2, he’s a Common "Garden-Variety" Cheater who will cheat
if he feels he can do it without getting caught.
If you answered yes to
#6 alone or in combination with #1,#2, #3, #4, or #5 you’re dealing with an
Experienced Cheater who’s probably good at covering his tracks. Watch him like a
hawk and familiarize yourself with the 21 categories of telltale
signs.
If you answered yes to #7 alone ( This one’s the biggie) or in
combination with any others, you’ve got a Hard-Core Cheater on your hands who’s
probably already having an affair. Make sure you know how to recognize the
telltale signs. Visit http://www.Is-He-Cheating-On-You.com
Free Tip Sheet to
Help You Deal With a Potential Cheater
Whether you’re dating a potential
cheater or married to one you need to know what to do. Ruth Houston’s free tip
sheet, “12 Ways to Handle a Potential Cheater, will give you some successful
strategies to use in dealing with a potential cheater and tell you what
precautions to take. To receive your free personal copy of this valuable tip
sheet, send an e-mail to: e-mail protected from spam bots (CheatingInfo at
aol.com) with the words "12 Ways” in the subject line.
About Ruth
Houston:
Infidelity expert, Ruth Houston is the nation’s leading authority
on signs of infidelity. Her book Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs,
documents practically every known sign of infidelity. Based on 10 years of
in-depth research on infidelity, it’s the most comprehensive infidelity
reference of its kind. (Available from www.InfidelityAdvice.com or 800-431-1579) Ruth has been quoted
in the New York Times, the New York Post, the Toronto Sun, First magazine,
Cosmopolitan, Good Housekeeping, and numerous other publications. She has been a
guest on Good Day New York, Telemundo, TalkAmerica, 1010 WINS and over 100 radio
and TV talk shows in the US, Europe and the Caribbean.
To schedule an
interview with Ruth Houston:
Call 718 592-6039 or e-mail her at e-mail
protected from spam bots (InfidelityExpert at gmail.com)
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information, visit the PRESS ROOM at http://www.InfidelityAdvice.com
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